Sometimes you have to acknowledge that (some of the) criticism is warranted. 

I think people get caught up in how attractive they are, how good they look together physically and their palpable chemistry on and off camera and get carried away. I myself reblogged a post and said I was aboard the Terry ship, but it was done mostly in jest (which was what I assumed the post was as well) I was only ever fully aboard the Terry adorableness-friendship ship . After that I saw it begin to snowball.

Although its lots of fun to joke around, (we all had blast being messy after last weeks Olitz blitz). I would never want to sully Kerry’s reputation and or help the national enquirer do their job lol. The last thing I’d want is for this sort of thing to stick and haunt her. Or make her more standoffish toward Tony and ruin our OTP. It is definitely true that there is a blatant racial double standard for female celeb conduct.

Until it comes from the horses mouth, regardless of what one may suspect, I think it would be wise to respect what their stated relationship statuses are and definitely refrain from posting speculation to the internet. Anything you post on the internet is public, including Tumblr, idk why people get so shocked when things here go public.

We can still have alot of fun here without crossing the line.

I know we’re in the age of social media but the fact remains some things are better thought and not said (or blogged). So I’m gonna continue to enjoy Olitz and Kerry and Tony being adorable and sexy on the show and in their appearances and leave all the gossip and speculation for my bestie irl lol

I still love you all and I’m not judging anyone, I just wanted to share my thoughts and I hope the fandom can come to an understanding soon <3